The Truth is Confrontational
First, it does not matter the content nor the context, the truth will always be confrontational because it is often contrary to our natural inclination towards the sin nature. It addresses an individual’s worldview, it addresses emotions, and it addresses opinions. Each of those is very personal in character. Therefore, when the truth addresses those issues it is seen as an affront to the very being of a person.
The Truth Is Hard
Additionally, the truth is hard. Certainly, its confrontational nature makes it difficult to begin with. However, it can impact the very things that people hold dear to them. Truth forces people to deal honestly with who they are and who others are. Sometimes, this means it may shatter our elevated opinions of ourselves and others. Furthermore, it shatters ways of thinking and ideologies.
The Truth Hurts
Because the truth is both hard and confrontational it is expected to also be hurtful. However, consider that the truth tells us who we are as people. In other words, it reveals our sin nature. The truth forces people to deal with realities that they spend their lives trying to avoid, and forces people to confront their faults and failures.
The Truth Requires Action
Finally, because the truth confronts failures and flaws, it requires action lest a person be complacent and remain stagnant. However, the truth is meant to be more than an exercise in mental fluidity but instead is meant to stimulate personal growth. Therefore, it requires intentionality and willful acquiescence.
The fact that the truth is confrontational, hard, hurtful, and requires action necessitates diplomacy when addressing the truth. Even the simple fact that it is confrontational by itself, means that how the truth is presented can be critical. To present something that is already confrontational by what it is in an even more confrontational way can create unnecessary retribution. This does not mean the truth is to be avoided, subverted, or subdued. Instead, it means we must pay careful attention to our manner of presenting the truth, and to do so in a way that indicates a level of compassion and consideration.
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